Friday, June 07, 2013

RAIN: THE DROPLETS OF HAPPINESS

You are so adamant, yet not so anticipated,
You leave us wet with unfelt emotions led,
Every droplet you send,
Make the land your best friend.

I feel short of words to define your beauty,
No human can ever understand your creativity,
You decide when to come and when to go,
When to be silent or when to roar.

You are my mother nature’s most expensive gift,
Sometimes you turn me happy or sadden me a bit,
I thank everyone but could never say it to you,
Trust me our life is sticking like with glue.

Rain rain don’t go ever again,
Your every drop is a blessing and relieves my pain,
Remove us from miseries and our sorrows,

Shove me to move like river that never stops.






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Management: A Futuristic Vision.

As quoted by Peter Drucker: "Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things". In today’s era, where the world is connected and no man tends to remain aloof from this network, a manager cannot afford to merely do what he is supposed to, in fact the difference is, where he performs an extra effort, in generating the performance more than what is desired from him, by motivating his employees as a leader.

The management is not limited to the art of managing the resources, but has extended its wings to fight its battle consistently to maintain its position. Gone are the days when companies could maintain their strategies to remain inimitable as they were the only ones who thought differently. Today, every moment, companies are trying to implement some “out of the box” strategy to attract new customers and retain existing ones and hence increase their profit margins as compared to their competitors. As followed by HCL Technologies: “Employees first and Customers second” is the new trend followed by most of the companies, especially the ones in service industries. Today, a manager needs to focus on the consistent satisfaction of employees and should devise new plans, in order to foster commitment during the metamorphosis process of an employee’s life within an organisation. Recruiting competent employees with the required KSA (Knowledge, Skills, and Abilities) is the first step towards it. All the functions irrespective of the specialization of a manager, requires a manager to himself be motivated and then in turn pass on the “hat” (Motivation) to his followers.

In order to attain competitive advantage, firstly, companies need to adopt the art of anticipation. Individually, each one of us possesses this art and consciously or sub-consciously, we do indulge in such practice in our day to day life, but in an organisation, where there are people with different needs, motivation levels, principles and values, integration becomes challenging. Anticipation, according to me, is the best tool by which success can unquestionably be attained. The only fact covering this term is to be both positive as well as negative, as we can control our internal factors (like our resources, manpower etc.) but external factors do remain outside our scope. Secondly, while anticipating one needs to be hungry too. Hunger about Information is the key which needs to be followed in the path, with keeping our senses always in incoming mode so that no information (whether required or not) passes by, without touching our brain. Thirdly, as followed by many leading companies like HCL Technologies, Infosys, TCS, companies need to be value-driven. No matter what is the kind of work, an organisation needs to be aware about its values as a whole and values of each employee too. Fourthly, each employee needs to be allowed to express his/her opinion, irrespective of his position in the company. This would increase the flow of new ideas, which might lead to the modification of an existing product/service or innovation of one. Fifthly, a manager should be more considerate to his organisation than to himself. His relationship (according to me) with an organisation is like that of a husband and wife. Though, problems might happen, the relationship would be stronger when there is transparency, openness, understanding, commitment and focus on one goal: “Prosperity”. Sixthly, too many goals hamper ones brain. Hence, focused approach is required, so that a problem can be handled in depth and the cancerous issue can be cut as and when it occurs.


To conclude, the decision of, the future of management lies not only with the leader, but with each entity connected to the organisation, beginning from key stakeholders to the society with which it is interlinked. Thereby, if it needs to succeed, it needs to consistently rethink what was the reason of its existence and work towards the attainment of it, else they would remain as mere plans, as Peter Drucker said, “Plans are only good intentions unless they immediately degenerate into hard work”.



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Saturday, January 21, 2012

QUESTIONS OF MY LIFE

I remember the day I was most blissful. To natter about the event, I find no verbal skills. My knowledge, my information was at zilch level. But my happiness and my enthusiasm were at peak. I wonder why I was born if I had to struggle so much. With leaps and bounds life showed me different chapters. My eyes still widen to think and visualize how I passed, through various steps of my life. I wasn’t a programmer, neither was a researcher. But even then i could move, swiftly or not, it’s not me who would decide. I am one moment happy, the other moment sad. Why is that, i still couldn’t figure out. I studied various subjects. Mathematics taught me how to play with numbers. Marketing taught me the art of selling. Human resource management taught me to judge others. But none of them taught me how to know myself. I have friends when i need. I have wonderful people besides me to give me the shoulders when I cry. But why am i not satisfied? Is that every human live with this discontentment? Or is it only me who is the Martian out here? Life gave me various lessons but even now I feel I have a lesson to learn. If I had none, I had no questions. But if I have questions I need answers. I don’t feel tired, neither am I giving up. I know I carry potential to make a circle a square. If it was not assumed that the earth isn’t round but flat, you and I would never have removed our tails. We used stones as weapons, and then came swords and pistols. We could find one to kill others but we still lack how to kill one. My dear friends, I don’t mean suicide neither I consider majority of us that courageous to think and do one. But I mean killing of various instincts and motives which drag us to do the superfluous activities and then later brings us to a repenting phase. To my notice, if I was to say something beyond, I would prefer to be mum as I myself feel a dupe to this feeling. The journey to be precise has actually taught me nothing, as I feel my life has not even touched a drop in the ocean of life.




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Friday, January 08, 2010

I Miss You
(for all those who have been in love ever, Wake up there is nothing called as Love!!)
*Note its all fictional and dedicated to my best friend!.

Why is it that I have water in my eyes?
And even if I want to stop them, they flow like an ocean. I find few words to explain how much i miss you. I dont know when u became the most important human of my life. I cant even remember when i started loving you. But all i know is I miss you. I have been controlling my tears since long, so that i smile and make people smile. I tried but I am tired. I wanted to have everything in life. But today after having travelled so far all alone, i believe my everything is you. My every happiness is nothing without you. I need your shoulders when i cry. I want you to see my tears and hug me and say that "you are with me". I know I am yours and you're mine. But why is this distance coming in our way. I hate this distance, I hate this hurdle. There was a time when i believed in God, only because I got you. But now it seems God is somewhere not watching me as why did he give me if he had to take me away from you? Why this feeling makes me sad. I am still crying. I never knew when i was fallen for you so much, that my life is no more in my control. I feel so helpless, so useless. What am I doing, if I am not with you. Why am I even alive if you are not there to look after my life? I want to see you smile, I want to see you cry. I want to hold you every moment. Why dont you understand my feelings? Why cant you hear me?



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If you feel the same and if you had a tear in your eye after reading this, Thank God for having being in love so madly. For 1 sec now think about all those who love you madly. Do they deserve this tear from you? If not then whom should you thank? Thank all those people who love you, coz live for those who love you as they would spend their life to make you happy. Whenever you remember your past, smile for the good things that happened, and move on. As the cliche says, you have to move on so why not change this "have to" to "I will". Life is a blessing so donot make it a curse by crying and being upset. Make it a blessing by being happy and spreading happiness every where around. Love and care for those who do the same for you..........For now just this much...Will write more next time........




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Friday, January 25, 2008

HUMAN: A MACHINE MADE UP OF EMOTIONS

Well friends, I am sure we all must have gone through such situations in our lives where we must have felt like being helpless, being cursed, left out and still struggling to come back to a happy, satisfied life. This post of mine is dedicated to all humans whom I would like to compare with this phrase of mine: “A machine made up of Emotions”.
Have we ever thought that in fact it’s only we human beings who get trapped with such emotional stresses? And I am sure it’s not only with youngsters but with all age people; let it be with a child, a teenager, an adult, an aged person. But my query to all my friends who are reading this is why it is so? Why do feel such emotions? Why do we feel like crying when we are sad? Why do automatically tears can be seen dropping from one’s eyes when he/she is dejected? And if this is the way God created us then why did he create us in this manner? I still find myself in a bit gauche state to state this tendency of humans.
No matter a human may be how much ever shrewd, cunning, clever but I am sure once, in fact many times in his/her life he might have found himself/herself being trapped. We believe that humans have been made with the most precious gift of providing us with brains. Not only with the gift of thinking and implementing our thoughts but also finding ways how to proceed further in our lives. But my friend if this is true then why do we feel at times lost, with no way taking us to a better motion of life? This can be stated as an unanswered enigma. We all in the first thought must surely be abominating this thought but I am sure in the 2nd thought we would realise that this actually is a fact. No matter how strong we may be but we intend to feel our sentiments being lacerated.
Let me make myself a bit more laconic in presenting a small example of a child. Have we ever thought why and when a child cries? And then when he starts smiling feeling his mother’s warmth? And suddenly why can it be seen with a blithe spirit after that? If that immaculate child who has no knowledge of this cruel world still shows emotions then what should it be called? No doubt off course a commendable job of the Almighty. But have we ever really tried to analyse the existing cause of this consequence?
Then slowly that child becomes a teenager and I am sure we all know this is the age where one feels rebellious. One feels like protesting against each and everyone near and dear to him too. Probably coz of our hormonal growth, even biology explains this logic clearly. But what I have to say here is why does this happen? Why such feelings trouble us?
Gradually very soon that teenager grows to an adult with all those feelings of happiness, depression, anger. And still no matter we are growing we retain those feelings still within us. Again I want to ask why?
And then finally one becomes a parent. The most wonderful period of happily taking the responsibility of a child comes in. And the entire emotion circle he himself faced can be in turn seen by being faced through his own child.
That’s my questions friends…why???????????????waiting for all views!!....and answers to my questions…



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Thursday, May 10, 2007

WHAT LIES BENEATH


Life is a great teacher and we all grow up to know better. Revealing the simple truth isn't possible b e c a u s e there's nothing simple about truth. Revealing your self entirely to another is impossible because there are multiple dimensions to your personality just as there are multiple dimensions of the same reality, looked at from different perspectives. There's a generous you and there's a mean you; you are honest as well as dishonest; creative as well as destructive; calm as well as chaotic. It all depends on the time of the day or who you are interacting with. Were you to reveal all these selves to another, would they not consider you a fit case for multiple personality disorder? And yet, you know you are fine with the way you are because an amalgamation of all these characteristics makes you, YOU -- the entity!

Revealing the entire truth is not even an option because truth, far from being just a binary representation of life, is contextual and multidimensional. Can anybody but Eva Braun understand the Hitler she loved, lived for and died with? And yet, that Hitler was her reality, while the rest of the world's reality was a totally different man! "I've always said that I shan't go on living if anything happens to you. You know that my whole life is loving you," she wrote to the man hated by the entire world!
Being truthful to one another is a complex expression because you are just revealing an aspect of yourself which is true and there are many other aspects. And so, when there is a truth and a falsehood in everything, your reality is the end of the stick you happen to latch on to. Don't we all know people who bring out different perspectives and evoke varied reactions from us? Some make you feel on top of the world; some bring out the worst in you; with some you go all quiet, while others bring out the talker within you. Some leave you stone cold, while others get you red hot! They say there's a sacred space that each of us keeps locked deep within us. The world sees what you choose to reveal. And isn't that a blessing?
Imagine your soul laid out bare for all to see, every thought, every emotion, every idea that flits through you. What a horrifying thought! Today, far from insisting on revealing all, I wouldn't want to peep into another's sacred space either! Call it loss of innocence or a part of growing up, but today I respect the need for a sacred space within that one can withdraw to, gain succour from and always depend upon. As for not knowing everything about friends, acquaintances and loved ones, thank God for that!

Friday, December 29, 2006

Iam feeling lonely...............


"SOLITUDE"


I took my hand to touch that flower
I poked my nose to smell that beautiful fragrance
But I am amazed to know it all vanished
And I am left all alone in this world.

I feel lonely I am sad,
Is there no one to fill my sorrows?
To remove my sadness?
And clean my tears?

See o god! I am crying,
Because I am all alone,
With no one to love,
With no one to bless.

I feel no such emotion,
As I have started hating everyone,
This is the truth of our existence,
You and only you are there for yourself.

Why only Judas did betray Christ?
Left him lonely for just 30 silver coins?
My condition is just like Christ,
Just the difference being that I am betrayed by all.

But I am still praying,
And hoping for happiness,
One day I would definitely feel,
The beautiful fragrance of rose and wonderful touch of flower.




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Life is to live feelingly,
To lift others downtrodden life earnestly,
To love everyone if or not they love you, endlessly,
It is to light others dark life lovingly.

So what is life??????

Is it to live thoughtfully?
Keep ourselves happy and live joyfully?
Damage others life and make them aimlessly?
Or suppress them to live sorrowfully?

LIFE IS GOD GIFTED WHICH SHOULD BE LIVED CALMLY

Then why do we commit mistakes?
And advise others to run without brakes?
Is it, we do for our own sakes?
To make our living joyful dates?

WE JUST GET DEPRESSION THROUGH IT AND NEVER ARE ABLE TO ENJOY TASTEFUL CAKES.

Instead, life should be considered most precious gift.
Handed carefully as women’s do with their make- up kit.
Then only we can make our mind and soul undoubtedly fit.
And make our bad intentions pit.

That is true meaning of life to love others without any bad intentions fulfilling all their sorrows endlessly.





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INNOCENCE
(what is innocence???)
I kept thinking on this subject,
Reminding my mind to be stable
And heart to reply to the question
Is this something which i really feel is something to be felt???
Some sort of feeling, emotion or distress?
Or related to any expression like dejection, depression?
May be an admiration would sort it
Or an inspiration would work out.
Every individual has some temperament
To rely upon any perception
To reject it and accompany another one
But why do we then cry, grumble?

Without any noise, yells, shouts
Our hearts weep, blood overflows
When someone puts hand in our wound
Is that our innocence that forbids us to reply?

TO SWALLOW THAT SORROW, TO FORGET THAT SIN?

What is then INNOCENCE?
An emotion without an outlet?
A commitment without a promise
A sorrow without any tear?
A boo with no pages?
A face with no smile?
Or a feeling which has just disappeared from our society.
Changing circumstances, modern civilization has extinct it.
But I need not imagine it, as Alteration has become necessity of our lives.





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Wednesday, October 25, 2006

WHO AM I??????


Friends, this is the time to discover who exactly we r????where from have we come?and where would we go one day????why did god create us???why did we took a model of a human being and came to this earth???well these questions make us keep wondering n still we r unable to answer them. But do we really try to even think abt these questions???
Life is certainly not a bed of roses. We need to face many hindrances and obstacles while moving on a path. But moving and oving we have forgotten even the reason of our existence. We have merely stopped thinking abt the wonderful cause why the god created us. Trhough this post my dear friends i just want we all to take few minutes n try to answer these questions.....
1) WHAT AM I?
2) WHO AM I?
3) WHY AM I?.................
Thanks,
Shiny.




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Friday, July 14, 2006

Something abt we mallus-----

Here goes my third post:-


Mallus a short name given to all the malayalees (people who have their origin at kerala a place termed as "GOD'S OWN COUNTRY" .KERALA a place which can be defined by what is the defination of the term beauty......such a wonderful place.......A place where if one goes would never desire to come back. A place in he complete india famous for still having reserved there culture, traditions, and the customs coz they r still prevailing there. Hey we all mallus should be proud of it..
This post is for all the south indians and even those non south indians who desire to know our kerala to some extent.....
so just have a look what is kerala all abt??????

Kerala (['keːɹəˌlə](?) (Anglicised) or [ˈkeːɾəˌɭəm] (native); Malayalam: േകരളം, — Kēraḷaṁ) is a state on the tropical Malabar Coast of southwestern India. To its east and northeast, Kerala borders Tamil Nadu and Karnataka; to its west and south lie the Indian Ocean islands of Lakshadweep and the Maldives, respectively. Kerala envelops Mahé, a coastal exclave of Pondicherry. Kerala is one of four states that comprise the linguistic-cultural region known as South India.
First settled in the 10th century BCE by speakers of
Proto-South Dravidian, Kerala was influenced by the Mauryan Empire. Later, the Cheran kingdom and feudal Nair-Namboothiri Brahminical city-states became major powers in the region. Early contact with overseas lands culminated in struggles between colonial and native powers. Finally, the States Reorganisation Act of November 1, 1956 elevated Kerala to statehood. Social reforms enacted in the late 19th century by Cochin and Travancore were expanded upon by post-Independence governments, making Kerala among the Third World's longest-lived, healthiest, most gender-equitable, and most literate regions. However, Kerala's rates of suicide, unemployment, and violent crime rank among India's highest.[2]
The etymology of the name "Kerala" is disputed. The prevailing theory states that it is an imperfect portmanteau that fuses kera ("coconut palm tree") and alam ("land" or "location"). Natives of Kerala — "Keralites" or "Malayalees" — thus refer to their land as Keralam. Other theories have the name originating from the phrase chera alam ("Land of the Chera"). The Kerala tourism industry has adopted the slogan "God's own country".
Kerala is one of the smallest states in the Indian union. Its area 38.855 square kilometers is just 1.3 percent of the total area of India. The land of India comprises the narrow coastal strip bounded by the Western Ghats n the east and the Arabian Sea on the west. In the words of Sreedhara Menon “Its unique geographical position and peculiar physical features have invested Kerala with a distinct individuality.” Hence it has played a vital role in the commercial and cultural history of India. Kerala has been describes “as the favorite child of nature.” Like Kashmir in the north, Kerala in the south is famous for its breath-taking natural beauty.
With its evergreen mountains, dense forests stately palms, swift flowing rivers, extensive backwaters and blue lagoons, it looks like a fairyland. This atmosphere of beauty and peace has nurtured religion and art in Kerala and enabled her to become a precious gem in the necklace of Indian culture. Indian poets of eminence have showered their praises for the abundance of its peppers, the fragrance of its sandal and the wealth of its coconuts. No part of India is so widely known or has played so important a part in world history as Kerala.
I hope this much infromation now was enough to understand all abt kerala in short.............
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Something I always wanted to alter


Hello friends this is my 2nd post....well as possible i would try to keep up my limits coz the topic abt what iam gonna write is something which i strongly believe not from today from the time i had started thinking of it....
Ok so here it goes////
What do u think why we indians run to abroad????
Probably the reason could be as stated under::::-----
(1)-Getting high salary paid in all those abraod countries like America and stuff???
(2)-Getting a lot of value and increased reputation while coming back to india???
(3)- These could be probably the main reasons well rest all sub reasons ........
Have we indians ever thought of this????
Have we ever felt ashamed of being such rude to our country????
Have we thought that we were really doing fraud to our nation ,to the place where we have everything,to the place that gave us name ,fame and the place we cast as our origin???????
hey thats still a question mark if yes we think then why dont we react????if no we dont think why dont we????

.......iam leaving this portion blank coz i feel we all need to refresh our memory and start thinking so if still we havent////




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Saturday, June 03, 2006

ME- MYSELF......

hello friends.......
This is shiny......well i always had a dream that something about me should be published on net.......
And today atleast i have started off to fly with my dream........
about me?????????
hmmmmmm iam basically a mallu.born and brought up in north india.....Too talkative as my friends say and yeh very chilidish as my mom says........
i like singing, painting, poetry, dancing.......yeh iam a good dancer.....i can say that coz i have won many awards for it....
singing.....not that sure coz i keep singing always till my chechi gets annoyed ..........so cant say whether i sing well or not.....?
What am i doing now?----iam an engineering student.....(2006)
(2012)To add upon...I am now an MBA student :)




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